Sex & relationships

The Divorce Files: Upsides of Moving Out
Life / Sex & relationships

The Divorce Files: Upsides of Moving Out

Thoughts on divorce: Yes, there will be an after.

The Media and the Erasure of Queer Sexuality
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The Media and the Erasure of Queer Sexuality

What do roommates, friends, gal pals and fans have in common? They are all words that erase queer relationships.

Top 5 Perks of Menopausal Lesbian Partners
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Top 5 Perks of Menopausal Lesbian Partners

My lady-friend may be going through “The Change,” and while she may be uncomfortable at times, I’m considering all the perks of having a menopausal wife. MORE MONEY! We’re going to save a boatload on tampons – especially because we started buying the super expensive, organic, unbleached cotton tampons because we […]

Guilt-free Vacation Without Kids
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Guilt-free Vacation Without Kids

Gabriella and I went on vacation, and we did not miss our children.

Weathering Seasons of Change
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Weathering Seasons of Change

We are all, always, embodiments of emergence. We’re just unaware of this fact until life presents us with ground-shaking change.

Spring Striptease: How 70s Shorts Made Me Gay
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Spring Striptease: How 70s Shorts Made Me Gay

For those who spend their finite resources attempting to discover the cause of homosexuality, let me save you some time: it was the shorts.

Better to Receive: How the Holidays Taught Me to Take What My Husband Gives
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Better to Receive: How the Holidays Taught Me to Take What My Husband Gives

He gives, I receive. Those are our strengths, our talents. That’s what makes our planet spin.

When Lesbians Twin
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When Lesbians Twin

Sometimes it’s hard to figure out who wears the pants in the family.

Moving Forward in Tandem
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Moving Forward in Tandem

Weekly walks can inspire us, connect us and lead to important conversations.

The Marriage Tradition Fable
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The Marriage Tradition Fable

Gay marriage opponents can try to brush arguments aside, but the truth is that marriage has evolved and continues to evolve.