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VQ Sex Ed: The one about vibrators
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VQ Sex Ed: The one about vibrators

VQ Sex Ed is back after a long hiatus. The series will run monthly from here on out provided y’all submit some questions. If you missed the first installment that gave general tips, you should check that out. Today, I give some advice on what to do when your kids […]

Make your resolutions reality
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Make your resolutions reality

Over the past few weeks, I have been taking a leadership training. One of the trainers was fond of asking us, “What is the difference between a goal and a New Year’s resolution?” Given that I had the question answered for me many times by that same trainer, I am […]

A Queer’s Guide to Staying Sober during the Holidays
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A Queer’s Guide to Staying Sober during the Holidays

Guest author Mary Bowers is a writer and graphic designer living in Chicago with her wife and two kids. She stopped drinking in October of 2002 and knows exactly what it’s like to confront the wall of holiday booze. You can read other stuff she’s written at here. [hr] Ah, […]

VQ Sex Ed: Talking to kids about sex
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VQ Sex Ed: Talking to kids about sex

This is the first installment of our VQ Sex Ed series in which I will provide helpful hints on talking to kids about sex and answer questions submitted by readers. We have received some questions and I’ll get to those in future videos but, today, I wanted to start by […]

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Coping

Guest author Andrew lives with his husband Juan and their son Benji in South Orange, NJ. They share their constant home remodeling project with their nine-year-old blind pug Poqui. Andrew was trained as an architect and now is the IT Director for a New York City architecture firm, where he […]