Life / Sex & relationships
by Dylan × on May 8, 2014 at 11:00 AM ×
One of the many wonderful things about our new house is the giant garden the previous owner established. It came with a strawberry patch and four huge empty beds just waiting to be planted with veggies. Yesterday, we planted scarlet emperor runner beans around a bamboo frame. Scarlet emperor beans have […]
Family / Kids
by Dylan × on April 10, 2014 at 7:00 AM ×
It’s hard not to feel sad about leaving our old neighborhood. I’ll miss the little routines and memories you build in a place. But building new relationships is one way change happens and the way we build community.
Family / Parenting
by Dylan × on March 13, 2014 at 4:13 AM ×
I know that I am not at my parenting best in these moments, nor am I a very good partner. I snap at the first sign of a toddler whine and if Little Bear throws food on the floor, my stern if-I-were-any-louder-I’d-be-yelling voice comes out. Even though it might feel good for a split second in the moment, that isn’t the sort of person I want to be.
Family
by Dylan × on January 17, 2014 at 5:00 AM ×
My kid has been on a dumpling kick. Last time I took her to United Noodles I let her pick out a package of frozen dumplings and we discovered she loves them. “Ummmm…. dumplings!” became the response to the question “what would you like for snack?” She cried great big two-year-old tears […]
Books / Culture / Family / Kids
by Dylan × on December 19, 2013 at 4:30 AM ×
Chasing Rainbows: Exploring Gender Fluid Parenting Practices (Fiona J. Green and May Friedman, eds. Demeter Press, 2013) was a thoroughly enjoyable book, featuring a mix of articles ranging from academic studies to personal reflections on parenting practices surrounding gender self-determination. I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that it also […]
Family / Kids / Parenting
by Dylan × on November 14, 2013 at 11:00 AM ×
I’m currently writing this blog at the beginning of a week-long work trip. This will be the longest I have ever been away from my kid and I am currently feeling pretty bummed. I am going to miss her “Wake up Daddy, wake up!” in the morning and her demanding “Read a […]
Life
by Dylan × on October 14, 2013 at 11:56 AM ×
Next up for VQ Comes Out – our series of coming out stories in honor of National Coming Out Day and LGBT History month – is Dylan’s story. Like C.J.’s this morning, Dylan’s coming out story has included multiple layers and several iterations. One interesting difference? Dylan’s parents had a point where they hoped […]
Family / Identity / Parenting
by Dylan × on October 3, 2013 at 4:30 AM ×
Picture the scene, if you will. I come home from work and Little Bear dashes over and clambers into my lap with a book to read. It’s one of those word flap books where each room is a room in a hypothetical house, you lift a flap and the word […]
Family / Kids / Parenting
by Dylan × on July 23, 2013 at 2:48 PM ×
Meet Dylan Flunker, the first in a clump of new regular contributors here at VillageQ! He’ll be filing monthly posts and we’re thrilled to have him aboard. ~VQ Eds Welcome to VillageQ! My name is Dylan. I usually don’t look quite as fabulous as in this photo, but I’ve […]
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