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New Gay TV Show is As Gay as Lesbian Porn

While we’re on the subject of Gaza, Ferguson and killing African babies every time we waste water for ALS, I figured it was time to discuss something equally as emotive and controversial, the fall television line-up. There are, as per usual, lots of new programs pixelating our screens this fall. […]

Family This Is Not Bad. This Is Not Good. This Is Change.

This Is Not Bad. This Is Not Good. This Is Change.

The last time I built an Ikea bookshelf, I was seven months pregnant with K, my almost eight-year-old. Today, I taught him how to place the screw inside the predrilled hole, how to set the drill’s Phillips-head bit into the screw’s crosshatches, and how to pull the orange trigger.   […]

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The Marriage Tradition Fable

Gay marriage opponents can try to brush arguments aside, but the truth is that marriage has evolved and continues to evolve.

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Ferguson, Missouri

This is not the time for shame and white guilt. This is not the time for silence.

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Culture / Media

New Gay TV Show is As Gay as Lesbian Porn

While we’re on the subject of Gaza, Ferguson and killing African babies every time we waste water for ALS, I figured it was time to discuss something equally as emotive and controversial, the fall television line-up. There are, as per usual, lots of new programs pixelating our screens this fall. […]

This Is Not Bad. This Is Not Good. This Is Change.
Family / Parenting

This Is Not Bad. This Is Not Good. This Is Change.

The last time I built an Ikea bookshelf, I was seven months pregnant with K, my almost eight-year-old. Today, I taught him how to place the screw inside the predrilled hole, how to set the drill’s Phillips-head bit into the screw’s crosshatches, and how to pull the orange trigger.   […]

The Fosters: Someone’s Little Sister
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The Fosters: Someone’s Little Sister

The finale hardly finalized anything, which of course is the point of a finale – kind of like when literally means figuratively. Callie shows up at Rita’s place, which is a shambles. Chip bag, a pizza box, and general clutter cover the coffee table in her sad living room. Callie […]

Protective Instincts
Family / Parenting

Protective Instincts

An incident on an airplane leads to questions about balancing what we know intellectually and our instincts to protect our children.

The Marriage Tradition Fable
Life / Sex & relationships

The Marriage Tradition Fable

Gay marriage opponents can try to brush arguments aside, but the truth is that marriage has evolved and continues to evolve.

Ferguson, Missouri
News & Politics

Ferguson, Missouri

This is not the time for shame and white guilt. This is not the time for silence.

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The Fosters: Leaky Faucets

Lena and Jude are still on a school trip, but Lena is “dialing in” occasionally. Of course, this is all due to the wonderful news that is real life. Back in May Sherri Saum and husband Kamar de los Reyes welcomed two little babies of their very own, John Rubén […]

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Who Is Safe in GLBT Spaces?

Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.

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An Answer to the Problem of Finding Diverse Children’s Books for All Children in All Families

Why is it so hard to find books for children that truly represent the diversity in our world? Author S. Bear Bergman shared with me that in 70% of children’s books where people are featured, boys are the main characters. In 93% of children’s books where people are featured, the main […]

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Eclectic Slide: A Very VQ Summer Playlist

We’re hoping this playlist will help you squeeze the last bit of sun out of summer or take you right back there when you need it.