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Nothing Opaque About Transparent PHOTO CREDIT: TRANSPARENT
Me and Machu Picchu: A Love Affair Me and Machu Picchu: A Love Affair
The Talk – Part I The Talk – Part I
Culture PHOTO CREDIT: TRANSPARENT

Nothing Opaque About Transparent

After suffering through the last season of The Fosters, ABC Family’s Little House on the Prairie treatment of parenting while gay, I was desperate to watch a queer series about queers and families made for grown ups. In other words, I wanted to see some boobs! No, that’s not really what […]

Family Weird Gay Parenting Moments

Weird Gay Parenting Moments

What’s the weirdest situation you’ve been in as a gay parent? Did it involve New Mexico like this one?

Life My Kids’ Advice on Coping with Difference

My Kids’ Advice on Coping with Difference

Does being visibly queer make you nervous sometimes? My kids have some advice that might help.

News & Politics Dylan Goes to the City Council

Dylan Goes to the City Council

As any trans person will tell you, access to gender neutral bathrooms can be life-changing.

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Dylan Goes to the City Council
News & Politics

Dylan Goes to the City Council

As any trans person will tell you, access to gender neutral bathrooms can be life-changing.

PHOTO CREDIT: TRANSPARENT
Culture / Media

Nothing Opaque About Transparent

After suffering through the last season of The Fosters, ABC Family’s Little House on the Prairie treatment of parenting while gay, I was desperate to watch a queer series about queers and families made for grown ups. In other words, I wanted to see some boobs! No, that’s not really what […]

Me and Machu Picchu: A Love Affair
Culture / Travel

Me and Machu Picchu: A Love Affair

Perhaps no other place on Earth has captivated me quite like Machu Picchu in Peru.

The Talk – Part II
News & Politics

The Talk – Part II

Most of us are aware of our privilege in abstraction but sometimes we miss the subtleties.

The Talk – Part I
News & Politics

The Talk – Part I

The conversation began, “Do you know what to do in the event that you are ever approached by a cop?”

Weird Gay Parenting Moments
Family / Parenting

Weird Gay Parenting Moments

What’s the weirdest situation you’ve been in as a gay parent? Did it involve New Mexico like this one?

My Gay Husband
Extended family / Family

My Gay Husband

Everyone needs a gay husband. Even queer women.

He’s Not Your Kid
Family / Kids / Parenting

He’s Not Your Kid

Going back to school can mean returning to homework. For some, it can also mean returning to the closet.

Photo Credit: Clare Masson
Kids

DIY: Curlicue Art

Sometimes when parenting, it is hard to see the whole forest when looking at the growing twig that is your kid. In other words, it is hard to step back and just enjoy the totality of that kid’s personality when there are everyday arguments that need to be fought (please […]

When a Wedding Aisle Becomes a Line in the Sand
Extended family / Family

When a Wedding Aisle Becomes a Line in the Sand

I have written before about how Rick and I have gotten married quite a few times, the first time being on June 24, 2000.  What I haven’t written about were the family members who conscientiously objected to our wedding. Bigotry and ignorance, given the sheen of legitimacy by calling them religion, […]